Our paediatrician has recommended medication for our 10yo son and we're really torn. We've tried everything else — OT, psychology, adjustments at school. I feel guilty even considering it. For those who went the medication route, how did you make the decision? Any regrets?
4 replies
Dave T
24 February 2026
We agonised over this for two years. Finally tried it at age 9 and my biggest regret is not doing it sooner. My son said, "Dad, my brain is quieter now." That was the moment I knew. Medication isn't about changing who your kid is — it's about giving them access to who they already are.
Lisa W
24 February 2026
Something our psych told us that helped: "You wouldn't feel guilty giving your child glasses if they couldn't see the board." Medication is just another tool. It's not forever, it's not irreversible, and it doesn't have to be the ONLY thing you do. We combine meds with strategies and the combo is what works.
Michelle K
24 February 2026
We chose NOT to medicate (for now) and that's been right for our family. Every kid is different. What I'd say is: don't let guilt or stigma make the decision for you. Talk to your paediatrician, ask lots of questions about side effects and monitoring, and know that you can always stop if it's not right.
Sarah M
24 February 2026
My daughter is medicated and my son isn't. Different kids, different needs. The right choice is the one that's right for YOUR child right now. And you can always reassess.
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